Handshakes or Arm Wrestles

How the haftarah of Ovadiah reveals Yaakov’s ultimate victory—handshakes, arm wrestles, and all. Print and enjoy over Shabbos.

Have you ever seen Donald Trump’s famous handshake? His bold grip, paired with a confident yank forward, makes it more than just a greeting. It’s a statement—a physical manifestation of strength, assertiveness, and the determination to take charge. For Trump, the handshake isn’t merely a pleasantry; it’s the opening move in a strategic dance, where every gesture signals intent and power. Many heads of state prepare for this handshake and try to control it—sometimes successfully, but usually not.

This power struggle comes to mind when thinking about the multifaceted struggle between Yaakov and Esav. It began when Yaakov dressed in Esav’s clothing to receive the berachah from their father, Yitzchak. It’s the age-old struggle of Yaakov trying to reclaim his hands.

We see this clearly when Yaakov encounters the Angel of Esav, and their meeting turns into a wrestling match. Yet, Esav and Yaakov also attempt to shake hands on a deal for peace. This is a struggle of duality—of connection (the …