I recently came across, and shared, this story about Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach Zt’l.1
One Simchas Torah, a young yeshivah bachur asked Rav Shlomo Zalman for a brachah.
With his usual warmth, Rav Shlomo Zalman blessed him: “You should find a good shidduch, have parnassah, and merit time to learn Torah.”
The bachur hesitated. “Thank you,” he said, “but that’s not the brachah I was looking for.”
“So what do you want a brachah for?” Rav Shlomo Zalman asked.
“I want to be the Gadol HaDor,” the bachur replied.
Rav Shlomo Zalman’s face fell. He grew visibly upset.
“How can I give you a brachah like that?” he said. “To ask to be the Gadol HaDor means you're asking for everyone else to be smaller than you. That’s not a brachah. It’s a put-down to others. I can’t give you such a brachah.”
It made me think.
Should we really be aspiring to be gedolim? Should we teach our kids to?
Or should we simply aspire to grow, to learn, to be kind, to be present, and if gadlus comes, it comes? Because we see them as…
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